Addiction : Porn and Masturbation


THE ADDICTION OF THE MILLENIUM.



46 years ago, When the Internet came into existence, The expectations were different from what is happening right now, People, then, were delighted by the fact that their next generations won't strive for knowledge, They had a vision that the world will connect in a more rapid way than before, Our genius forefathers could never have predicted what curse they have developed for the generation, that tends to ruin everyone's life. With access to unlimited information and data comes the problem of data that is irrelevant, something that is not needed, Yes you already know, we are talking about pornographic materials. 
every second or third teenager once in their life were ex[posed to the pleasure brought by this totally unrealistic and non- viable material. If you ignore that fact what is happening in that 10-minute video and ignore how it gives you pleasure, think rationally, there are only coloured pixels, there is no actual person there, to provide you with those sensations you are experiencing. Something you are supposed to experience nature with an actual human being, how shameful it is that you are, experiencing it due to some pity pixels. When you confront yourself when you put yourself in a trial in your own court, do you think that you stand a chance that you will be uncharged and unaccused?
 Okay, Let's not make it sound like sin and let us discuss the real reasons why these things are not good for you.

1. Excess of everything is bad

You might have heard for someone, That masturbation is good for you as it relieves you from stress and you might have also experienced it by yourself. This thing becomes, intolerable when done in excess, because ' excess of everything is bad'. And if you have done it once or twice there is a fair chance of you getting addicted to it. Yes, it comes with 100 % assurance that you will get addicted to it. And according to the studies, This addiction is going to be harsher as compared to the addiction of Narcotics. So ask yourself a question, and keep asking it, do you even love yourself? If you do, then choose your life and do something productive with the time, you are wasting on ' beating your meat '.

2. Ruined Mental and body structure

We have already explained in our previous blog, hope addiction takes place, so no need to explain in detail here. Think about it in this way, when you were a child, you had a toy, that you used to play with but after some time, you got bored of it and you wanted something more interesting than that toy, and this cycle kept on going like this. In Scientific terms, This is called " COLLEGE EFFECT ". So the point is, very clear here, you won't feel excited and aroused by the same video you have watched again and again, after some time, you would definitely want more 'kinky' and 'fetish' stuff. And you can bet us on this, if you are a ' porn addict' in a couple of years you will definitely find yourself 'Jerking' on Gay-Porn ( No Offense ). If this is not an eye opener for you then wait for the types of video I mentioned.
Another aspect is that, if you are grown man and at the same time an addict then things are4 going to be more difficult for you. Lets put it like this, one day you are going to fall in love with a very beautiful girl and lets directly jump to the part where you both are married. She is unaware of the fact that you are a porn addict. When the night of actual ' Love- Making ' comes, your little boy won't get up because it only gets excited with some kind of BDSM fetish, which is only possible in porn videos and not in normal life. Now think about the vibe of that situation, you feel devasted and low amount of confidence because your pee-pee won't get up and on the other side that innocent girl, She blames herself for that. She might think that her physical appearance is not good enough to excite you. Remember this, Girls are innocent-emotional creatures and a situation like this will completely devastate her self-esteem. So now think about it! Your addiction caused harm to two people, one you yourself and the other who was closely acquainted with you.
 worse experience is the 'overtly-chaotic' mind, You lose emotional control, you experience drastic and rapid mood swings. You lose temper easily and your precognitive decisiveness becomes zero.

3. Social Anxiety, Low self- confidence and self-esteem.

We as human beings are primarily programmes to socialise, This is one of the tactics of survival.
Even in the groups of Monkeys, species closely related to us, The odd-ones, less socialised monkeys are isolated and not accepted and their survival becomes difficult, and there is less chance of longevity. Well, our genes, somewhat work like that, we tend to ignore the unhealthier ones and the ones who are less socialised. Take note, socialisation is the matter of choice it all depends on you whether you wanna stay introvert and keep your business to yourself or you wanna share it with the world but being able to socialise is an important clue, required to achieve bigger goals in life.
one bonus point I would like to highlight is that ' girls love confident men', take it as a hint if want to score well with girls.
the problem of self-confidence will pinch you when you will stand at a do-or-die situation, due to your low self-confidence and self-esteem, you will just keep sulking on everything. Again ask yourself a question do you want to be a cry-baby, spoon-feeder or mama's, little boy?
That one dark corner of your room, where you keep looking for new stuff to arouse you or your bed where you just love lying down and beating the shit out of yourself, Its gonna take you and your life to the point where you won't be able to recognise yourself for who you are. are you still willing to pay this huge sacrifice just for a 2 second instant pleasure ?.
 What a shame it would be to know that you can't even talk to people normally, looking directly into their eyes and you will never be able to stand up for yourself because your self-confidence is less than expected. Yes, you can have an absolute amount of pleasure every time you do it, you might win the race of finding the the best video for you over the internet but you will never win the race of your life!

If you have the determination to win this battle, kindly wait for the next blog to drop!

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